#43 A Sex Addict Learns Boundaries (CatchVp Ep #2)
We’re taking a mental health break, so enjoy our second episode. This Catch Vp Ep focuses on Chastain, our producer and a host, and a life and relationship coach. Chastain is an adult living with Autism who shares the benefits of learning how to set personal boundaries in polyamorous and swinging situations. Content warning: Chastain is very candid about sex addiction, sexual and emotional abuse, and being the child of an alcoholic.
This episode provides a fly-on-the-wall look at an open marriage between two people who have made mistakes, hurt one another, and come through the other side.
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Terms of Note
Here are some terms and phrases we use in this podcast and links to articles we find informative. If we say something unfamiliar to you, please drop us a line on Twitter @podpodcvltcast FB /podpodcvltcast or email: email@example.com Check out episode #1, #2, #3, #4,or #5 for some basic polyamory and kink terms. Or check out our glossary episodes #24 & #25
- “It Takes a Village”
- Sex Addiction
- Coming Out
- Unicorn Hunting
- Addict Brain
- “Take one for the team”
- “Fuck yes, or it’s a no.”
- Petamour- Your partner’s pet
- 12 Steps
- 1950’s Household
- Consent Violation
- Enthusiastic Consent
- Kink Adjacent- An individual does not identify as kinky but is accepting of these traits in others and the community
- Polyam Adjacent- An individual does not identify as polyamorous but is accepting of these traits in others and the community
- Chosen Family
- Campsite Rule
- “Love is Not Pie”
Resources & References
- Episode 2:Best Wingman Ever
- Episode 1: A Kinsey Hero (Chastain’s Husband)
- Episode 4: More Chicks? That’s Awesome (Chastain’s Partner)
- Place: Shrine Mont
- Movie: Exit to Eden
- Dating Site: Adult Friend Finder
- Dating Site: OK Cupid
- Dating Site: http://match.com Match.com
- BDSM Community Website: Fetlife
- App: Tinder
- Book: Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships by Tristan Taormino
- Book: Sex at Dawn by Christopher Ryan & Cacilda Jethá
- Therapy App: Talkspace
- Therapy App: Breakthrough
- Podcast: Savage Lovecast
Episode 43 Transcript
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