#43 A Sex Addict Learns Boundaries (CatchVp Ep #2)

This Catch Vp Ep focuses on Chastain, our producer and a host, and a life and relationship coach. Chastain is an adult living with Autism who shares the benefits of learning how to set personal boundaries in polyamorous and swinging situations.

Summary

We’re taking a mental health break, so enjoy our second episode. This Catch Vp Ep focuses on Chastain, our producer and a host, and a life and relationship coach. Chastain is an adult living with Autism who shares the benefits of learning how to set personal boundaries in polyamorous and swinging situations. Content warning: Chastain is very candid about sex addiction, sexual and emotional abuse, and being the child of an alcoholic.

This episode provides a fly-on-the-wall look at an open marriage between two people who have made mistakes, hurt one another, and come through the other side.

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Terms of Note

Here are some terms and phrases we use in this podcast and links to articles we find informative. If we say something unfamiliar to you, please drop us a line on Twitter @podpodcvltcast FB /podpodcvltcast or email: thepod@podpodcvltcast.com Check out episode #1, #2, #3, #4,or #5 for some basic polyamory and kink terms. Or check out our glossary episodes #24 & #25

“It Takes a Village”
Sex Addiction
Boundaries
Coming Out
Polyamory
Unicorn Hunting
Demisexuality
Addict Brain
“Take one for the team”
“Fuck yes, or it’s a no.”
Metamour
Jealousy
Petamour- Your partner’s pet
12 Steps
Autism
1950’s Household
Consent Violation
Enthusiastic Consent
Kink Adjacent- An individual does not identify as kinky but is accepting of these traits in others and the community
Polyam Adjacent- An individual does not identify as polyamorous but is accepting of these traits in others and the community
Chosen Family
Campsite Rule
“Love is Not Pie”

Resources & References

Episode 2:Best Wingman Ever
Episode 1: A Kinsey Hero (Chastain’s Husband)
Episode 4: More Chicks? That’s Awesome (Chastain’s Partner)
Place: Shrine Mont
Movie: Exit to Eden
Dating Site: Adult Friend Finder
Dating Site: OK Cupid
Dating Site: http://match.com Match.com
BDSM Community Website: Fetlife
App: Tinder
Book: Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships by Tristan Taormino
Book: Sex at Dawn by Christopher Ryan & Cacilda Jethá
Therapy App: Talkspace
Therapy App: Breakthrough
Podcast: Savage Lovecast

Episode 43 Transcript

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Credits & Contact

Hosts: Max, Chastain, Hannah, & Erik
Website: www.podpodcvltcast.com
Email: thepod@podpodcvltcast.com
Title Music: “Spencer – Bluegrass” by Lobo Loco
Midroll Music: “The Point Break” by Pale Blue/Goberino

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